As we noted earlier this year, R. Kelly‘s new single “Share My Love” is blatantly about sex. But we didn’t know what kind of sex he was singing about (hey, it’s Kelly). It’s all clear now, as RK’s shimmering new video for the Barry White-copping tune has him singing, crooning, and dancing up on not one, but two foxy ladies. Obviously that “love” aspect is secondary, and “sharing” is the message he’s really trying to drive home. Here’s a tip for guys who want to apply his lessons to their own lives: Don’t say “I learned it from R. Kelly,” ever.

Coming up for Kelly: Sharing the next installment of Trapped in the Closet later this year on IFC.

R. Kelly’s Write Me Back will be out this spring.