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Dear Chali,
My friend wants me to join an adult kickball league. Should I? It seems juvenile but I could stand to meet some new people.

“Wow. I would tell anybody this: If something’s in your heart then it’s better to not have to go to a job you hate but get paid a lot to do than go to a job you get paid a little but you love doing it. So as far as kickball, if you feel that you love it then do it and do it to the best of your ability. But if you feel it’s something you might regret then you want to avoid kickball! For me though, I would not join the kickball team.”